Advantages And Disadvantages Of Being An Entrepreneur

According to ChatGPT, the definition of an entrepreneur is someone who identifies, develops, and manages a business venture, taking on financial risks in the hope of making a profit. Being an entrepreneur myself, it’s so much more than that small definition. I’ve been an entrepreneur since I was a kid, always identifying needs and coming up with solutions. My first …

How To Tell Someone You Don’t Want To Date Them

The dating scene has turned into an interesting place to exist. As someone who has been single on and off for 30 years, I’ve seen a lot and I’ve turned down a lot of people. I’ve also said yes to a lot of people. Today’s environment is particularly fascinating, and I’d attribute that mainly to social media and dating apps. …

Not Interested in Dating

Dating. It used to be something I enjoyed. Before I got married (for the second time) in my mid-30s, I went out on dates all the time. They weren’t complicated, and I didn’t meet these guys on dating apps because the apps didn’t exist. If they did, no one I knew used them. Fast forward a decade, and the art …

How I Learned to Have More Fun as an Adult

When we are little, we want to be grown. When we are grown, we realize the realities of being grown come with a lot of responsibility and it becomes not quite as fun. As I’ve gone through adulthood, I have decided to become more playful and fun, and it’s just because I can. I’ve learned how to have fun as …

Ways to Find Your Authentic Self: Getting to Know YOU

When we are born, like the second we are born, everything is neutral. There are no expectations to be the best little boy or best little girl, the brightest student, the best athlete. Oh, how quickly those things change, though. We are quickly bombarded with the issues and opinions from the adults who surround and raise us. They tell us …

9 Advantages of Being Single

I’ve been single and I’ve been coupled throughout my entire life. Now, after two divorces under my belt, I’m not in a rush to get into any type of situationship, coupleship, or marriage. I’m not interesting in dating. I’ll never say never to anything, but for now, I’m happy to be single and not super ready to mingle. My earlier …

How To Stay Positive In A Negative Environment

We’ve mostly all been there. A negative environment or situation that we wonder how we let ourselves get into. One day we wake up feeling depressed, down, fraught, or any other feeling word that you can think of. The reality is that we cannot control anything outside of ourselves, but we absolutely can control our actions, our mindset, our next …

How to Make a Friendship Better

Friends have always been part of my life. Much of my youth I had them because of proximity and nothing more. The kids that lived across town from me were a treat to spend time with outside of school because our parents rarely wanted to bother toting us from one house to the other. It was easier for them to …

45 Things in My 45 Years

As I publish this post, it’s my 45th birthday. I’m not sure why it’s such a momentous one for me, but I suppose it’s because it feels like it could be smack in the middle of my life, at least I can hope it is, if not even less. My life has been nothing short of spectacular, particularly in my …

My Top Self-Improvement Books

Traditional school was never my “thing.” Learning, however, was always something I was interested in. As most people, I enjoy learning about things that interest me. While I succeeded at my primary years doing relatively well in traditional school, large college classrooms were another story. “Disaster” would be a nice way of describing my 18-21 year old self. When I …